Meredith Frailey

Federal shutdown and the Cherokee Nation

BY Phoenix Archives
06/01/2011 09:53 AM
By MEREDITH FRAILEY
Tribal Councilor

Several Cherokee Nation citizens recently visited with me about their concerns on how the recent potential shutdown would have affected CN services and programs. The then-looming federal government shutdown had American Indian leaders scrambling to determine what a stalemate on Capitol Hill would have meant for their tribes and citizens. The federal government’s incidence often plays a vital role in everything from law enforcement, social services, health care to schools. Many tribes were not in a position to make up for the loss of government services.

During the Clinton administration and the 1995 federal government shutdown that lasted almost three weeks, the CN government was in a fragile financial position. Fortunately, today, the CN is positioned to withstand almost any crisis. The CN is not scrambling because our leaders have been positioning the government to withstand any anticipated federal shutdown. The CN financial group has analyzed all grants that are not forward funded and the amount of cash we would potentially need to cover those grants is approximately $2.7 million to $3 million a month. Because we have been conservative with tribal funds and have a contingency reserve in place, we likely can weather any shutdown for at least 60 days with no major impact to our cash flow. That is significant.

To ease the concerns of many citizens, I met with CN government group leaders and the principal chief for an answer I could give to the Cherokee people. They assured me that they had been preparing for a shutdown for quite some time. They were:

1. Constantly monitoring congressional appropriations required by the CN.
2. The principal chief recently issued a memo encouraging cost containment measures (e.g., limitations on travel, supply orders, filling vacant positions, etc.). This approach happened in all branches of government.
3. Monitoring cash flow to ensure available cash to support short-term obligations during a shutdown.
4. Involving the Tribal Council, if required, to determine which programs should be reduced or placed on hold if cash flow is unable to sustain programs funded by congressional appropriations.

The tribe’s cash flow is positive due to funds we receive from gaming, fees, taxes and our business entities. Additionally, due to conservative, prudent fiscal management and strong financial policies we are able to meet our cash flow needs and satisfy the statutory requirement established by the Tribal Council in 2002. I recently met with the CN treasurer and the Tribal Council financial officer. They assured me our cash reserve fund and line of credit meet the statutory requirement of 1.75 percent of appropriated funds due to the recent amendment to the 2011 fiscal year budget approved by the council. This ensures our contingency fund is protected and provides us the flexibility to meet such emergencies as a federal shutdown, weather conditions and other crises.

As I mentioned at a recent education summit, to be successful in meeting future challenges, regardless of whether you are a tribe, state, school, corporation, etc., you must have a vision and a long-range plan to accomplish that vision. For instance, Principal Chief Chad Smith’s vision of a happy, healthy people and the government’s 100-year plan, leaders are focusing on the people we serve in order to fulfill that vision. We have customized solutions to withstand potential emergencies. Our business boards, composed of astute Cherokee business people, also are mindful of their fiduciary duty to the Cherokee people and have included the chief’s vision in their long-range planning and are ensuring we are a self-sufficient government and people.

Perseverance, courage to make difficult decisions, foresight and pride have characterized the Cherokee people for centuries. Today, and in the future, as leaders make decisions that affect our present and future generations, these traits are a source of strength. After meeting with the principal chief, group leaders and our financial officers, I came away with an assurance that the CN could continue to protect core services while our federal officials played a dangerous game of chicken in creating a potential federal shutdown. Perhaps, they could learn from us.

meredith-frailey@cherokee.org • 918-453-1572

Opinion

BY BRYAN POLLARD
Executive Editor
11/05/2014 08:46 AM
Attorney General Todd Hembree recently released an opinion that wrongly affirmed the two-year term of an Editorial Board member. In doing so, he ignored the will and intent of the Independent Press Act. The issue provoking the opinion began in January of 2012 when Clarice Doyle, a Cherokee Nation citizen and director at Rogers State University, was appointed to the Editorial Board to replace board member Dan Agent. Doyle was Principal Chief Bill John Baker’s nomination to the board and was unanimously confirmed by the Tribal Council. Soon after her appointment it was discovered that the appointment resolution was drafted in error. The resolution stated that her board term expired in October of 2014, giving her a term less than the term required. The Act explicitly states: “terms of office of the Board members shall be six years.” Upon discovery of this error, the board directed me to bring it to the attention of the appropriate authorities in order to correct the mistake. I initially discussed it with Hembree who described it to me as a “scrivener’s error,” which is an inadvertent mistake that changes the meaning of the document but does not occur from reasoning or determination. Hembree assured me he would address the mistake. Later, I discussed the mistake with Council attorney Dianne Barker-Harrold during a phone call. She said that she was on a business trip in Alaska but that she would look into it when she returned. I also discussed the mistake with Council Speaker Tina Glory-Jordan during a meeting with her in her law office. I shared with her a copy of Doyle’s appointment resolution and a copy of the Independent Press Act with the relevant language highlighted. She assured me that she would look into it. The mistake was not corrected despite these assurances. In September, Doyle was informed by a Cherokee Nation Businesses employee that her term was ending and that she would not be reappointed. Doyle then sent a message to me and the Editorial Board members informing us of her departure from the board. I contacted Hembree and revisited our earlier discussion. Rather than acknowledging the error, he said that there should be a determination about whether the appointment resolution or the Independent Press Act was the legal authority in determining Doyle’s board term. I argued that the language in the statute was clear in its intent: Editorial Board members were to serve six-year terms. The only two exceptions provided in the Act were for the initial appointments for Seats 4 and 5 when the board was expanded to five seats in the 2009 amendment to the Act. However, I reasoned that those exceptions did not apply to Doyle’s appointment because those seats had already been appointed to members Jason Terrell and Robert Thompson, respectively. Doyle was replacing a board member and was entitled to a normal six-year term. Hembree released his official opinion (2014-CNAG-03) several weeks later. It is an interesting read and I encourage all Cherokee citizens to read it themselves. I have several concerns about its factual accuracy and legal analysis. The first section, titled “Factual Background,” contains numerous factual errors that are easily corrected with a little bit of legislative research. In the third paragraph it is stated: “John Shurr was appointed by the three other board members to serve a six year term in April of 2010.” This is incorrect. Shurr was already seated on the board and was reappointed. Shurr was reappointed by the four other board members: Gerald Wofford, Agent, Terrell and Thompson. It goes on to state: “With the addition of John Shurr, the Board now had four members.” This is incorrect. With the reappointment of Shurr, the board had five members. The paragraph then concludes: "… It appears that no one has been appointed to Seat 5 …" This is a conclusion derived from the previous incorrect statements. After the Act was amended to add two seats to the Editorial Board, it is reasonable to assume that the next appointment, Terrell, was appointed to fill Seat 4, and the following appointment, Thompson, was appointed to fill Seat 5. Both of these appointments were additions to the board. At the time of Thompson's nomination there was one open seat to fill and it’s reasonable to assume it was the Seat 5 described in the amended Act. Thompson did not replace a seated board member but was an addition to the board. He joined members Wofford, Agent, Shurr and Terrell. This “factual” background lays the foundation for the next section, “Legal Authority and Analysis.” Curiously, this section does not address or even mention the authority of the Independent Press Act. It is the Act that created the board, and it is the Act that stipulates the requirements, limitations and duties for service on the board. Yet its authority is completely absent in the legal analysis. Hembree opines that there is no ambiguity in the language of the resolution, therefore it is outside the purview of his office to change the term of the appointed office. He correctly asserts that can only be done by the legislative or judicial branches. The important legal point that he fails to address is whether the unambiguous language of the resolution complies with the will and intent of the Independent Press Act, which specifically governs the board terms. The Tribal Council spoke when it created and then amended the Act in 2000, 2001, 2005 and 2009. In each version of the statute, the same phrase is present: “The terms of office of the Board members shall be six years.” The appointment resolution is subservient to the statute, and it is a legal axiom that resolutions must be compliant to the relevant statute. Hembree’s analysis did not examine the relevant and specific language in the Act necessary to place the resolution in a legal context. By disregarding the authority of the Act, a disservice has been done to the government that enacted it, to the Cherokee people who depend on it for a free press, and to all tribal nations that look toward the Cherokee Nation as a beacon of truthful reporting and good governance. It is concerning to see the Attorney General issue an opinion based on a flawed and inaccurate background analysis because it is his duty to ensure his legal opinions are true and correct. But as an advocate for an independent Cherokee press, it is truly disturbing for me to then see the authority of the Independent Press Act disregarded in a matter as important as the proper determination of an Editorial Board term. Our free press is only as strong as the law that protects it, and the law can only protect it if it is enforced. It is important that the people hold our public officials accountable to enforce the Independent Press Act so that our historic legacy of independent journalism and press freedoms are preserved. <a href="http://www.cherokee.org/Portals/AttorneyGeneral/Docs/opinions/2014-CNAG-03%20Editorial%20Board%20Term%20Limits.pdf" target="_blank">Click here</a> to read Attorney General Todd Hembree’s opinion. <a href=" http://www.cherokee.org/attorneygeneral/Opinions.aspx" target="_blank">Click here</a> to go to the Office of the Attorney General website.
BY JAMI MURPHY
Reporter
11/03/2014 08:46 AM
We’re coming up on what many refer to as the “thankful” part of the year – Thanksgiving and Christmas. I’m sure we’ve all done it. “I’m thankful” for this or that. But my question is how do we ensure our kids are taught to be thankful and understand what gratitude is? As a parent, I often have trouble getting my 6-year-old boy to express gratitude and thanks. Well, I’ve decided to take this to a new level. They call it “leading by example.” The whole family will be partaking in our “Year of Thankfulness” experiment. Caden, my son, and I are going to create a “Thankful Expressions box,” all the while, I’m going to be explaining to him the importance of being thankful, what we’ll be doing over the next year and why. The plan is to write a thankful note each week, including the date, and place it into our box. At the end of each month the family will pull out our notes and read them. I’m hoping that doing this on a regular basis will keep Caden mindful of what he should be thankful for and over time I’m hoping that his gratitude will grow, develop and mature. Misty Boyd, a Cherokee Nation Behavioral Health licensed psychologist, said gratitude is one of the more difficult things to teach children and it’s important to practice it regularly, in a concrete way, and over a long period of time. “Gratitude, like many things, is a skill that develops over time and shifts as we grow. It takes practice to develop that skill, and being positive about any effort your son makes to practice gratitude will help him grow that skill over time,” she said. “I think that many parents and adults find that gratitude is difficult for themselves, which makes it even more difficult to teach to children. However, we’ve become accustomed to expecting ‘quick results’ and may get disappointed when children don’t learn what we’re trying to teach them quickly. We also tend not to practice often enough or long enough for it to ‘stick.’” Just like children get frustrated, I too find myself frustrated at times and even more so when we enter the dreaded grocery store. It can be trying and aggravating at times when my child asks and almost expects to get something new each time we go. Then I say “no” and the whining ensues. “Does Caden not remember that toy we bought yesterday?” I ask myself. “Remember your something special we bought at the store?” I ask him. “Yes,” he says. “Can’t you be grateful for that?” “Yes, but…” “OMG! Stop throwing a fit and be thankful already about the hundreds of toys you have at home,” I say to myself. According to Parents.com, it’s important for parents to practice saying no. It’s hard, but let’s practice. “No.” See not too hard. Now sticking to that no is the tough part. “It's difficult, if not impossible, to feel grateful when your every whim is granted,” a Parents.com article states. “Saying no a lot makes saying yes that much sweeter.” Another reason that gratitude can seem difficult to teach is that kids think differently from adults because their brains are still developing, Boyd adds. “They are supposed to think differently than adults think. That means that it’s OK for a young child to be grateful for a new toy from grandma instead of being grateful that grandma came to visit,” she said. “As adults, we value time and relationships but kids may be more focused on the concrete things.” Here are some tips on promoting gratitude: • Model gratitude as often as possible. • Use concrete reminders of gratitude. • Label gratitude or suggest to kids when it should be felt. • Praise you child’s efforts while developing the skill. • Remember to express your gratitude for your child. I often hear from elders in my family, “kids nowadays don’t appreciate things.” I don’t want to raise a child like that. I encourage everyone, not just parents, to find something that you also can do to improve your gratitude this year. You’re not alone. We all have many things to be thankful for, myself included. Let us remember them.
BY TRAVIS SNELL
Assistant Editor
10/31/2014 11:04 AM
On Oct. 6, the U.S. Supreme Court declined appeals from five states seeking to preserve same-sex marriage bans. The court’s decision legalized same-sex marriage in 30 states, including Oklahoma. Gay couples in Oklahoma began marrying after court clerks started issuing marriage licenses to them. They can now marry in the state’s 77 counties. However, that doesn’t hold true for gay couples wanting to marry under Cherokee Nation law. Under CN law only heterosexual couples can marry. This goes back to May 2004 when the tribe’s District Court issued a marriage license to CN citizens Kathy E. Reynolds and Dawn L. McKinley. The couple filed for the license after determining the marriage law didn’t specify gender. The license was granted and the couple married, but court orders barred them from filing it. Legal wrangling and lawsuits ensued, and to this day CN courts have yet to render a decision. On June 14, 2004, the Tribal Council amended the Marriage and Family Act, defining marriage as one man and one woman “to protect the traditional definition of Marriage.” Then-Tribal Councilors Bill John Baker, Audra Smoke Connor, Melvina Shotpouch, Meredith Frailey, S. Joe Crittenden, John F. Keener, Jackie Bob Martin, Cara Cowan, Phyliss Yargee, Buel Anglen, David Thornton, William “Bill” Johnson, Don Garvin, Charles “Chuck” Hoskin Sr. and Linda Hughes-O’Leary voted for it. Chad Smith, then principal chief, signed it into law. I have problems with this law. One is the “traditional definition” of marriage in the CN. In a lawsuit filed during the same-sex saga, CN Court Administrator Lisa Fields stated her lawyer researched tribal law and history and determined gay marriages were “never contemplated or recognized.” But Roy Hamilton, a former teacher of the tribe’s history course, states that John Howard Payne, a European-American who lived with the Cherokee to document their customs, mentions a union ceremony to formalize “perpetual friendship” primarily among gay men. Hamilton states oral history paints a picture of gay life among the Cherokee and that they viewed gay marriage as an autonomy right. He states each Cherokee lived his or her life as they liked and no one had a right to interfere in personal choice. “That would (be) to say they accepted gay people just as any other Cherokee,” Hamilton states. He adds that “Cherokee marriage pre-European contact was informal and an agreement” between those deciding to co-habitat and perhaps their clans. “No Cherokee married like the European until there was intermarriage and acculturation,” he states. So Cherokees accepted gay people and gay couples, and marriage was an informal agreement between the people living together. If that’s how Cherokee marriages were, why not let gay couples marry under CN law? But alas, I think what tribal lawmakers in 2004 were referring to was Christian marriage. According to the June 2004 Tribal Council meeting minutes, Hughes-O’Leary requested the amendment to the Marriage and Family Act and “challenged the Council before the people, God and Jesus Christ what is in the legislation they could vote against.” Minutes state Martin said he “supports this legislation…as a Christian, a born again believer” and that the “Bible teaches what marriage is.” The record also states that “Garvin as a Baptist deacon said he strongly supports this legislation.” The problem with their arguments is that the CN is not a theocracy. We don’t govern with the Bible. We govern by our constitution. Not every CN citizen is a Christian. There are some who believe in other religions beside Christianity or no religion at all. We shouldn’t deny rights from our citizens based on religion. I believe the CN law also defies the U.S. Constitution’s 14th Amendment. I know not all rights afforded in the U.S. Constitution are seen in Indian Country. Look at the First Amendment and its right to free press. In Indian Country, a free press is rare. However, the 14th Amendment should apply. “No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.” I see the law against same-sex marriage as depriving gay people the liberty to marry another consenting adult, and it doesn’t provide equal protection. It provides that one set of couples can marry but another set can’t because of sexual orientation. Individual rights should not be voted upon. That’s what makes them rights. But that’s what happened in 2004 when 15 people voted away a right that’s afforded to straight people but not gay people. Some voted in the name of God. Some probably did so they wouldn’t lose votes. Whatever their reasons, they don’t matter. They took away something that isn’t theirs to take. Consenting Cherokee adults who are gay can marry in Oklahoma. But the option to marry under CN law should be available to them. The current Tribal Council, or the next, should fix the legislation blocking gay marriage. I don’t see the courts rendering a decision on the case that arose 10 years ago. Something needs to be done. Equality should prevail.
BY LEE KEENER
Tribal Councilor
10/28/2014 01:25 PM
Ka, nigada itsitsalagi! Attention, all Cherokee! I think every day of my Cherokee father, grandmother and the many elders I knew when I was young. I miss their wisdom, insight, patience, teachings, life lessons, encouragement, their humor, and, yes, even their discipline. I remember how our elders looked at life and the comfort and love they provided all of us was significant and important. Now I am grown and I respect them even more. When I was a boy, I assumed my elders would always be here. I still have many questions to ask them every day, but the time is gone. My grandparent’s first language was Cherokee. We have much to learn from our elders today. I am grateful for our elders still living who are our culture keepers. We owe both the living and those who have gone before a debt of gratitude. One thing I remember about my Cherokee father was his compassion for all animals. The animals know things that we do not know. Pigeon in Cherokee is woyi. Gule disgonihi, which is translated as dove, literally means, “he cries for acorns.” In a deeper sense, the meaning is the dove is crying for the people. Elders then and now will tell you doves and pigeons are our messenger birds, and as such should not be molested or killed without purpose. Doves and pigeons, white birds in particular, are sometimes used for ceremonial purposes. It is of utmost importance the birds are prayerfully respected. The birds and animals fed us through hard times. We should never leave the Cherokee Nation and enter another tribe’s homeland to kill doves and pigeons. Our Cherokee culture tells us to remember a time when we as a people had a flagrant disregard for killing animals. The animals held a council and afflicted us with all manner of disease. The Nation may not be blessed if animals are needlessly slaughtered. The animals, birds and fish provide for us still. If we forget the Cherokee teachings of our elders, we may unintentionally abandon Cherokee ways. Another recent casualty has been our Cherokee language program at Northeastern State University. I had to ask for a detailed report of the loss of funding to the program. A Memorandum of Agreement is being worked on as this column goes to press. The program funds were diminished and repurposed without a plan in place and without Tribal Council knowledge or consent. The new “plan” must take place soon if the program is to begin in Spring 2015. I cannot stand idly by without questioning this action because I took an oath of office which stated “... I will do everything within my power to promote the culture, heritage and traditions of the Cherokee Nation.” Our language scholars, teachers and students have worked and are working tirelessly and passionately to preserve our language. We owe it to them, to ourselves, to the ones who have gone before us and to the generations who will follow, our best effort to help our language endure. As a student of the language program eloquently stated, “The most successful language endeavors are those that employ all strategies available. While we can, it is our obligation to do so.” As a student of the Cherokee language who is always learning, I need this program. As with many of us, I can no longer go to my father or grandmother to talk to them. I am proud of those few who can still speak and write Cherokee. I am proud of those who still are sharing their Cherokee knowledge. I am proud of the language program, the immersion school, students, teachers and families who are committed to Cherokee every day. I see our people living under a veil of implied inferiority while those in power lord their positions over them. We still have many Cherokee capable of helping. A number of elders helped me with this article, and I could not have written it without them. It is a good thing to seek counsel from our elders, and as our Constitution states, “the guidance of the Sovereign Ruler of the Universe.” Maybe it is not our culture and language which are lost, but us. Perhaps the doves cry still. They cry for us.
BY BILL JOHN BAKER
Principal Chief
10/24/2014 04:31 PM
A historic part of our past recently became an exciting part of our future. The Cherokee Nation is back in the bison business. In October we received a herd of 38 female bison from the Badlands National Park in South Dakota. The 2-year-old cows will be joined by an additional 10 bulls from Theodore Roosevelt National Park in North Dakota any day now. Seeing them released onto their new home was a moving experience and one that will forever stay with me. Right now they are grazing on 66 acres of specially fenced pasture in Delaware County, but about a thousand acres are available to open up as the herd grows. For many of us, bison are an iconic symbol of our great country – free, strong and resilient. Those are the same traits we identify in ourselves as Indian people. That’s why bison have always represented something deeply spiritual to our Cherokee tribal ancestors and why it’s important for us, as a tribal nation, to reintroduce bison within our homelands. Most people only associate bison with Great Plains tribes, but woodland bison once roamed the CN and all along the Atlantic Coast. Prior to European colonization, the animals played a critical role for the Cherokee people. Hundreds of years ago when buffalo migrated east of the Mississippi, the Cherokee people survived, in part, by hunting buffalo and using them as a vital food source. It was only after Europeans’ colonization that bison were mostly wiped out from the east and southeast parts of the present-day United States. Today, we have an extraordinary opportunity to reconnect the modern CN with a prominent part of our history and our cultural roots from our traditional homelands. There is a nationwide resurgence by tribes, including the CN, to reconnect with these animals. This Native renaissance with bison is being led by the InterTribal Buffalo Council, an organization that we proudly support as one of 60 member tribes. It’s through the ITBC that we were able to secure these surplus animals from the national parks. We hope to qualify for more surplus bison in the future. Our Natural Resources Department has been preparing for nearly two years to successfully acquire this herd. We have strategically planned how to sustain and grow it, and we are prepared to take additional herds. The ITBC staff generously consulted with our staff to plan for the herd’s arrival and helped provide funding for the special 7-foot-fencing and supplies to maintain the animals. These bison will continue to be monitored by our Natural Resources Department and our specialized veterinarians. The Nation’s Natural Resources Department manages 22,000 acres of tribally owned land in northeast Oklahoma, and this herd of bison will be housed on 1,000 acres near Kenwood. Historically, bison provided more than an essential source of protein for tribes. Every part of the bison was used for food, clothing, shelter, tools and ceremonial purposes. For future generations of Cherokee people, these newly acquired bison will help revive some ancient cultural traditions, as well as provide expanded economic opportunities. The economic benefit bison can have for the CN is profound. There is great potential for a boon in regional tourism. The bison can provide an extra tribal destination for tourists to experience. That will only enhance our current cultural and historical offerings we provide through CN museums, art galleries and historical sites. We know bison is a lean protein, and down the road we may look at bison as a locally produced food source for our Cherokee citizens and senior citizen nutrition centers. Healthy, nutritional food to counterbalance the modern epidemic of obesity and diabetes affecting Indian people could change that current trajectory. Bison are the beginning of a new chapter to a familiar story for the Cherokee people, and we are eager and proud to share it.
BY JAMI MURPHY
Reporter
05/05/2014 11:18 AM
Who says you can’t have it all? Lately my reality has been just that. However, I haven’t been doing it alone. During the past year I have experienced several changes. All of which have changed not only my life, but my family’s, too. In March 2013, I had the opportunity to finally purchase my own car, a new model. That was exciting. I had been having trouble with mine and I badly wanted to purchase a new car. I never thought I could, but I did and that was a fantastic blessing. Two months later, my family and I moved into a new house built by the Housing Authority of Cherokee Nation under the tribes’ new home construction program. My in-laws allowed us to purchase a small piece of property from them north of Tahlequah for the home to be built upon. I filed for the program the week of its inception in April 2012, and a year later we moved into our first new home. That was a dream come true. Without that program I’m afraid it would have been far longer for me to buy a home, a new home at that. In June, my then-partner Mike Murphy and I discovered we were expecting our second child. So together we have four children. This news was quite surprising, but great. We thought having another child wasn’t a possibility any longer considering we’d tried for nearly two years, but we were blessed with another boy. I thought I had my hands full with one in the home (the other two live outside the home). So on Jan. 27, we welcomed the newest Murphy, Austin. So after all these changes and the welcomed surprise why not go ahead and throw another one in the mix. Mike and I finally got married. I had taken my maternity leave a week before going into labor. So my last week of my leave we planned a small, nice ceremony on the Cherokee Nation Courthouse grounds beneath a beautiful magnolia tree. And the ceremony was just that, beautiful. CN citizen David Comingdeer officiated. So on April 8 at 4:08 p.m. on the grounds of the historic courthouse, David gave the prayer and welcome in both Cherokee and English and proceeded with the marriage ceremony. I have waited nearly seven years to marry Mike and for whatever reason in the past it just wasn’t the right time. So on that day I walked to a floral archway where Mike stood as Jami Custer and we left that ceremony as Mr. and Mrs. Michael Murphy. Now I’ve returned to work, a much-awaited return in my eyes. I have missed the past three months without writing for the Cherokee Phoenix and contributing to what I feel is a much-needed news outlet for our Cherokee people. It feels great to be back working again. Even though we’ve spent the past seven years as a couple, I want to try and be as a good of a mother and wife as I can. Why wouldn’t I? But life is a lot of work. In today’s society, many women and men attempt to do it all. They want to work, bring up babies, have personal relationships and still try to find the time for themselves. I tell you, it’s not easy. It can be done, but there’s a lot of help behind the scenes that many don’t see. For example, purchasing my new car couldn’t have been achieved without my employment with the Cherokee Phoenix. Working for the past seven years has allowed me the opportunity to establish better credit and work steadily and that afforded me the opportunity for the new car. My home would not have been possible without the help of CN citizens William and Deborah Smoke. They have helped us more than words can express. And finally, the old saying “it takes a village to raise a child” I think can be linked to our relationships. Many people have had a hand in my and Mike’s seven-year courtship, both good and bad, but either way all leading us where we are today, married. We can have it all. But when you look at it, really look at what you’re accomplishing, I don’t think you’re doing it alone. Many people are there helping, some we can’t even see. Thanks friends, family and extended family for all you’ve done behind the scenes.