Atcity vying for Miss Oklahoma USA title
Cherokee Nation citizen Tasha Atcity receives her crown as Miss Northeastern State University on Nov. 5, 2013. Atcity now has her eyes set on becoming Miss Oklahoma USA 2018 in December in Shawnee, Oklahoma. COURTESY
TAHLEQUAH, Okla. – Tasha Atcity is preparing to compete for Miss Oklahoma USA 2018 in December, using the platform of inspiring disadvantaged youth. The Cherokee Nation citizen wants to be a voice by sharing her story and encouraging youths to defy stereotypes, as she did.
Competing in one, let alone three pageants, isn’t what Atcity dreamed possible five years ago while living at the Oklahoma United Methodist Children’s Home in Tahlequah after losing her home and income. She said she persevered and strived to “motivate and inspire individuals to pursue their dreams and goals”
“Five years ago if someone told me I would be competing in my third pageant, I would be like ‘oh goodness, you’re crazy’ because I didn’t know that was a possibility. But once I saw that it is a possibility that’s when I really opened my eyes. I realized that if I thought that stuff, then there are so many people that can think that way, too,” she said.
While living at the children’s home, Atcity received housing and support she didn’t have previously. She graduated from Northeastern State University in 2015 becoming the first person in her family to graduate from college.
“They (children’s home) helped me overcome the generational boundary of education along with helping me understand that my ‘mess’ was my message. They gave me the start I needed to become a confident young women,” she said. “I have a wonderful family, but because my parents were so focused on how we were going to make ends meet, there was a lot of questions I had that I didn’t know how to ask. And if I did ask, I’m not sure they would have been able to answer. So to give them the opportunity to be proud of who I have become, and for them to know they did every thing they could for me to be successful, and God did the rest, means so much to me.”
She grew up believing she could never be successful and remembers thinking she didn’t have the “capabilities to change her life.”
“When I was younger I would look at other people and think ‘wow, I could never be that successful.’ But those were just boundaries I was putting in place of myself. Nobody put those boundaries up. But now that I took those down, they can never come back up unless I put those road blockers in my way again,” she said.
Atcity competed in her first pageant on Nov. 5, 2013, winning the Miss NSU crown. In 2014, she competed for Miss Oklahoma, all the while maintaining her platform for disadvantaged youth.
“During my time at the children’s home and through my participation in the 2013 ‘Remember the Removal’ bike ride, I realized how extraordinary people can be and how you can truly use your life to impact others and inspire them,” she said. “So my goal was to compete in pageants to gain a title so that I could use that title to promote the platform to help disadvantaged youth and youth who are very advantaged, to understand that no matter what situation they were born into, what family they had or what situations they have been a part of in the past, right now they a have a decision to change their life and to impact the lives of others.”
She said competing for Miss Oklahoma USA would give her the opportunity to be the role model she wished she had growing up.
“I want to give young girls around me and in Oklahoma communities someone to look up to and say, ‘You know, her parents weren’t doctors, and she didn’t come from a family with a lot of money, but because of hard work and determination and because she believes in herself she was able to accomplish things she has set out to do,’” Atcity said. “A lot of the time we look at people’s social media, and we think ‘wow they were born perfect’ or that they must have had these situations given to them and that’s why they look so successful. But that’s not the case, so my goal is to go around a break those stereotypes and make people understand that it really is up to them whether or not they pursue a successful future.”
As part of the pageant, contestants will be judged in personal interview, on-stage question, fitness/swimsuit and evening wear, and Atcity said she’s preparing daily.
With the pageant alone costing $1,200, plus interview preparation, wardrobe, beauty accessories and coaching, the dollar amount to compete can be expensive. To help achieve her goal, Atcity opened a GoFundMe account for anyone willing to support her.
“Literally anything can help at this point. Pageants are very expensive. The entry fee alone is extremely expensive, but it’s worth it,” she said. “At this pageant I am representing Cherokee County. When I walk on that stage I am not there just for me, I’m there representing every young person who doesn’t know how important they are and how much they can make an impact.”
She also said she’s available for public speaking engagements. “I have four months to prepare, and in that time I really want to get out into the Cherokee County area and inspire and break down all those stereotypes that say ‘because you come from a specific background you don’t get to have this particular future.’ So I would love to share that with the community if they have opportunities for me share something like that and even if it’s on a personal basis with a young person.”
The Miss Oklahoma USA 2018 pageant is Dec. 15-17 at The Grand Casino Hotel Resort in Shawnee.